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Oh my God.
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And on that note. Yeah.
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Let’s go to black.
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Get it?
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Oh, my.
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God!
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I almost choked!
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Get it ? Get it?
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Yeah, we got it.
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We got it.
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Hey, it’s me Erin.
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Thanks for joining us on the More
Love Podcast.
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Do not tell Rebecca,
but this podcast is about empathy.
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She likes people
to think she’s dead inside.
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But the truth is, she’s a big time feeler
who has truly helped me
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uncover that empathy is my superpower.
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Oh, here she comes.
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Hey, bestie. Hi, love. What are you doing?
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Oh, just getting ready to host a podcast.
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A podcast about what? Oh, life.
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Our life as best friends
who are more like sisters.
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Yay! I love us, and I can’t wait
to share our stories of the world.
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Especially the ones that involve us
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pushing each other right?
To be our most authentic selves.
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Oh, man. Okay.
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Happy Valentine’s Day to you.
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Oh Valentine’s Day.
-This is my favorite holiday.
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My favorite holiday. The best thing is.
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Sawyer wakes up this morning
and she runs out to the kitchen.
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She’s like, “Where are my presents?”
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Presents?
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I was like,
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because I always give; cause they know
Valentine’s is my fav-
What is it Arbor Day or something?
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and I always give them presents.
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And I didn’t put them out yet,
but that’s the first thing she said.
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I was like, really?
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I can’t yeah, I can’t.
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I went downstairs this morning
and I had a,
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like a candy bar
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behind my back
that I had bought for Carter.
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And I said, Carter,
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will you be my Valentine?
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And I’m like, you know, he is.
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He is nine now.
And mom’s not as cool.
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I mean, private,
you’re it’s probably fine.
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But if you were to try to do that
at school.
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Oh, no. Nooooooo!
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So I got my hand
behind my back and he goes.
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I don’t I can’t I don’t think I can.
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grandma already asked
and also I got the dog.
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Oh, oh, you-
-Get in line.
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This is me standing there with a candy bar
behind my back, and I’m like,
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all right then. Guess
I’ll give it to someone.
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Well, okay.
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I guess I’ll just take this
and have it for myself.
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She’s like, no, no, mom.
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Yeah, absolutely. Absolutely.
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You could be my Valentine. What’d you get?
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What’d you get me?
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I said, that’s not how I show love.
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Turned right around.
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I went right back upstairs, little ass,
I swear.
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Grandma already asked, and, I got the dog.
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Oh, my God.
-June’s my Valentine.
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Oh my god.
-Oh okay, great.
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Could I maybe be third after the dog?
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Oh my.
-Whatever.
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So in a turn of events, Taylor,
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last week, her and I were at, Wegmans,
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and, she must have taken a picture
of a nice little bouquet
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and sent it to daddy.
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Dads.
Okay.
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And last night, Phil walks up the stairs
with a bouquet of flowers
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from the Wegmans store,
and he’s like, Happy Valentine’s Day.
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I go A.) day early.
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Nailed it.
-Yeah, yeah.
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Nailed it.
-Yeah, yep.
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Two.
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He’s like, “I had to go and ask the lady
because Taylor sent me a picture
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and I wanted to get the exact one.”
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Okay.
-Taylor.
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I know. I know Tatety-Bug
-Good job Tay!
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and she looks at me and she goes, yeah.
-She’s like I got this.
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I got this, mom.
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Which! Which Sawyer
and I had gone to Aldi together and bought
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our own roses.
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Yeah, absolutely.
-Because we knew there was a 50% chance.
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Absolutely
-It wasn’t going to happen.
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And to top it all out, Philip had somebody
in his family passed away yesterday.
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So the fact that he was dealing
with all of that and,
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And. Yes.
-went out of his way
to go to Wegmans.
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And spend his own money.
-Yes. Yeah right.
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I know
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Now you have like
-I know and he knows
this is my favorite holiday.
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It’s-it’s still going okay,
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That one
gets the entire length of the claps.
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Yeah. Because he nailed it. He nailed it.
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Oh yeah.
-Yeah yeah.
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Well now you have 16 bouquets of flowers.
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But you know me I love flowers.
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Yeah
-Which I probably had to spray
or spray.
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I probably had to put pepper all over them
because the cat went right to eat them.
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Pepper on the flowers?
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If I put pepper like black pepper
on the flowers, he won’t eat them.
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Your cat eats the flower.
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Yeah, he’s an asshole.
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But, Gilbert, I bought myself some flowers
the other day and I always put them
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on my kitchen island next to my sink,
because that’s where I, like.
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See that most often.
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That’s because that’s
where we always put the flowers,
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because we can’t think
to put them anywhere.
Stop it!
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So what?
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So what? Okay.
-Because they went there once.
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And I liked them there!
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And now I feel comfortable with them being there.
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Whatever! Let me have my story.
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My story is I just randomly put them there
because I see them all the time.
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So what?
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The answer is, that’s where they go.
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Right?
-Because that’s their place.
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Whatever.
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Anyway, look what happened.
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Gilbert went right over to them
and I went back to my office.
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And of course, I don’t know that
he’s up there knocking on my flowers.
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So that’s what he does.
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I hate him, and, Mark comes into my office
a little while later and goes,
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why is there throw up on the counter?
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I’m like, what?
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He’s like, there’s a huge pool
of throw up all over the couch.
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He threw up on the counter so my asshole
cats go, ran over to my brand new rug.
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Okay, and throw up on okay.
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I got hardwoods and tile and shit,
but they throw up right on the new carpet.
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Yeah, see,
that’s why my house is a shithole.
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Because I know that it’s
going to be ruined. So why make it better?
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Oh, that’s your philosophy.
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Okay.
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Yeah, that’s. Yeah. That’s good.
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I mean, that’s that’s that’s a choice.
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That’s not mediocrity at all. That’s fine.
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That’s totally fine.
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Oh, I am the poster child for mediocrity.
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Oh, well, I think that
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we should give a little valentines
to somebody else.
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Okay.
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Stop it.
It’s time for you to come in here.
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Scott. In there? Yeah.
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I didn’t set up for this. Doesn’t matter.
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You just need to come in. Matter?
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This.
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Does it matter?
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We need you.
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All right, Jeeves, d do we need you? So.
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Anyway,
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we feel this is the More Love podcast.
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Please come in.
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I love the Jeeves. Oh, yes.
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Yes, yes, yes, please come in.
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Do you want to share Aaron’s makeup?
Come on over.
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Come on over. Scott.
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We love Valentine’s Day,
and we wanted to give you.
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Haha.
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We want to give you this bear
cub bouquet of flowers.
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Oh, this is for you.
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Can you hand it to him?
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Yep. And,
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Kelly, if Scott gives this
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to you later, it’s from him.
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That’s totally fine.
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we got you some picked up? Yes.
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So. So you’re. Help me.
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I said so
are we going to. We’re going to buy.
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We’re going to buy Scott some flowers
for Valentine’s Day.
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She’s like who? Scott? I got
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I got he’s our podcast partner.
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He’s she’s like, okay, I go
we got to find manly flowers.
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She’s like, yeah,
let’s look for some black and blue ones.
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I’m like, yeah, no.
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So she picked like not recessive
Valentine’s Day.
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She picked those.
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And then I go, we got to find something
manly to put it in.
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And she picked that.
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Wow. So she is manly is it.
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That’s right there.
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I mean, there is a whole lot of choices
there, but that’s your little bear cub.
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But wait, we’re not done. We’re not done.
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We’re not done.
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I, I,
I suck because I didn’t get you guys know.
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Oh, it’s this
this this is not part of the plan.
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Scott, listen.
Where are you? Oh, goodness.
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Oh, good.
You don’t think we’re you? Oh, goodness.
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Oh. I’m sorry. Here’s
the other Valentine’s Day.
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No one gives a shit. No. It’s fine.
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I didn’t even give Erin anything
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except where I called her
and serenaded her this morning.
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It’s fine.
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But this.
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We also know it’s your birthday.
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You love some Duncan.
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And we did not at all
want this day to go by without you
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participating and having some. Duncan.
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But this is a lot of fun.
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This right here on the.
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On the air, on the YouTubes.
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Here on the air? Yes.
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So should we sing Happy Birthday? Yes.
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Happy birthday to you.
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Happy birthday to you, Sadie.
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My, that is,
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happy birthday to you.
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Oh, wow.
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That’s awesome.
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yeah.
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Lucky we got you some Dunkin Donuts,
some snacks.
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Bacon in there
in the disguise of wearable.
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Look at this.
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Do you like it? Oh, do you love that?
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Do you like it?
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We love it.
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So Scott is currently holding a
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t shirt from Imperfect by Kelly,
soon to be a website.
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Once we get around to it.
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And on the up front,
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we have a heart
and in one half of the heart is the rock.
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Do you like this?
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That like that’s like that’s rare.
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Do you look like a snake?
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It’s like.
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This is not like the top.
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Here we have, the rock
fox loops over here.
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Rock Fox logo, the little, microphone.
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And then on the other side
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we have the Empathic Edge logo,
which is Rebecca and our new Rebecca.
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NAS, Rebecca notes
new business that we’re running.
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And then on the back in by Kelly
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wrote more love love rock Fox.
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That’s.
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There.
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So happy birthday. There’s your snares.
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Just back in again from Duncan’s
happy 40th birthday.
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That’s a happy birthday for the 11th.
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Happy Valentine’s day.
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Happy Valentine’s day.
00:10:02:02 – 00:10:02:22
Happy birthday.
00:10:02:22 – 00:10:05:22
Happy snack and bacon right now
back to the
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back to the show was made by Paul.
00:10:08:13 – 00:10:10:21
While Scott goes back to the station.
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Goes back to his portal.
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Yeah, it was made by Imperfect by Kelly,
soon to be a website.
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Kelly up the street. with her.
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Was it circuit or a cricket?
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A cricket, yeah. Get those mixed up.
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So fun, so fun.
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Oh my goodness, I’m very sick.
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Yeah, I know it’s not good, but at least
you’re getting that out of your system.
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Now, I know
before we leave for the cruise.
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Which destination?
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We have no clue where we’re going. Right?
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We live next week.
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Yeah, I’m really excited about it.
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I’ve already started my, purchases.
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okay. Yeah, yeah.
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I, we need to go back to the Amazon board.
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I know you made.
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I know we should probably do that
this afternoon.
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What it is that we need to do,
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that we need to order
because we’re in our window now.
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So now is the time.
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Oh, the return window.
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Yeah. Okay,
so that’s good. Now is the time. Yeah.
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And I’m really excited,
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but I’m doing all the things to get better
because I’m a down and out man.
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No it’s not.
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You know what really helps, son?
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I know, I know so, so much better.
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But if you give it to me today
and then I get it
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for the crux of the trip,
I’ll never be really pissed off.
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I’ll never hear the end of it.
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I know, you know, it’s funny, as I was,
oh, yeah, that’s a feel.
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That’s good.
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Yeah. To that, like made my night
I was sorry.
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Nose cavity is I want to like snuff out.
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But this is how cheap I am.
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I was thinking of what suitcase
I was going to take because, you know,
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I have an array, and
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we’re taking southwest down there.
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Would you get two free bags to check?
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Oh, which is great,
except for taking Delta on the.
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We’re back and we have to pay for that.
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So in my mind I’m like, oh, I know
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there was a lot of wow,
that’s really advanced coordination.
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I know that you came out of there.
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I’m, you know, b
I think things all the way through
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and then make decisions based on. Right.
All the things.
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Yeah.
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So I’m in the process
of trying to figure out
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if I’m going to check a bag or not.
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I know now I’ll tell you this
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every time I’ve been on a cruise,
I have gone very well
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prepared for all of nature’s elements
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and I’ve pretty much worn the same
two outfits the entire set.
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That’s you.
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If you look back on our podcast you wear
the exact same outfit every single time.
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I don’t think I’ve
worn the same thing twice.
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so this is I got to bring all the things
I know.
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Did you have a heart on this morning?
Heart?
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Yeah, I do, I do.
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It’s true.
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It’s Valentine’s Day.
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The whole bunch of hearts on the right.
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I was going to wear my heart
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sweats.
Oh my God.
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And on that note. Yeah.
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Let’s go to black.
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Get it?
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Oh, my.
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God!
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I almost choked!
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Get it ? Get it?
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Yeah, we got it.
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We got it.
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Hey, it’s me Erin.
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Thanks for joining us on the More
Love Podcast.
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Do not tell Rebecca,
but this podcast is about empathy.
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She likes people
to think she’s dead inside.
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But the truth is, she’s a big time feeler
who has truly helped me
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uncover that empathy is my superpower.
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Oh, here she comes.
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Hey, bestie. Hi, love. What are you doing?
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Oh, just getting ready to host a podcast.
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A podcast about what? Oh, life.
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Our life as best friends
who are more like sisters.
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Yay! I love us, and I can’t wait
to share our stories of the world.
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Especially the ones that involve us
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pushing each other right?
To be our most authentic selves.
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Oh, man. Okay.
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Happy Valentine’s Day to you.
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Oh Valentine’s Day.
-This is my favorite holiday.
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My favorite holiday. The best thing is.
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Sawyer wakes up this morning
and she runs out to the kitchen.
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She’s like, “Where are my presents?”
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Presents?
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I was like,
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because I always give; cause they know
Valentine’s is my fav-
What is it Arbor Day or something?
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and I always give them presents.
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And I didn’t put them out yet,
but that’s the first thing she said.
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I was like, really?
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I can’t yeah, I can’t.
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I went downstairs this morning
and I had a,
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like a candy bar
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behind my back
that I had bought for Carter.
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And I said, Carter,
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will you be my Valentine?
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And I’m like, you know, he is.
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He is nine now.
And mom’s not as cool.
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I mean, private,
you’re it’s probably fine.
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But if you were to try to do that
at school.
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Oh, no. Nooooooo!
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So I got my hand
behind my back and he goes.
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I don’t I can’t I don’t think I can.
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grandma already asked
and also I got the dog.
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Oh, oh, you-
-Get in line.
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This is me standing there with a candy bar
behind my back, and I’m like,
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all right then. Guess
I’ll give it to someone.
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Well, okay.
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I guess I’ll just take this
and have it for myself.
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She’s like, no, no, mom.
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Yeah, absolutely. Absolutely.
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You could be my Valentine. What’d you get?
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What’d you get me?
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I said, that’s not how I show love.
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Turned right around.
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I went right back upstairs, little ass,
I swear.
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Grandma already asked, and, I got the dog.
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Oh, my God.
-June’s my Valentine.
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Oh my god.
-Oh okay, great.
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Could I maybe be third after the dog?
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Oh my.
-Whatever.
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So in a turn of events, Taylor,
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last week, her and I were at, Wegmans,
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and, she must have taken a picture
of a nice little bouquet
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and sent it to daddy.
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Dads.
Okay.
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And last night, Phil walks up the stairs
with a bouquet of flowers
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from the Wegmans store,
and he’s like, Happy Valentine’s Day.
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I go A.) day early.
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Nailed it.
-Yeah, yeah.
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Nailed it.
-Yeah, yep.
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Two.
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He’s like, “I had to go and ask the lady
because Taylor sent me a picture
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and I wanted to get the exact one.”
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Okay.
-Taylor.
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I know. I know Tatety-Bug
-Good job Tay!
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and she looks at me and she goes, yeah.
-She’s like I got this.
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I got this, mom.
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Which! Which Sawyer
and I had gone to Aldi together and bought
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our own roses.
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Yeah, absolutely.
-Because we knew there was a 50% chance.
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Absolutely
-It wasn’t going to happen.
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And to top it all out, Philip had somebody
in his family passed away yesterday.
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So the fact that he was dealing
with all of that and,
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And. Yes.
-went out of his way
to go to Wegmans.
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And spend his own money.
-Yes. Yeah right.
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I know
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Now you have like
-I know and he knows
this is my favorite holiday.
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It’s-it’s still going okay,
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That one
gets the entire length of the claps.
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Yeah. Because he nailed it. He nailed it.
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Oh yeah.
-Yeah yeah.
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Well now you have 16 bouquets of flowers.
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But you know me I love flowers.
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Yeah
-Which I probably had to spray
or spray.
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I probably had to put pepper all over them
because the cat went right to eat them.
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Pepper on the flowers?
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If I put pepper like black pepper
on the flowers, he won’t eat them.
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Your cat eats the flower.
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Yeah, he’s an asshole.
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But, Gilbert, I bought myself some flowers
the other day and I always put them
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on my kitchen island next to my sink,
because that’s where I, like.
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See that most often.
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That’s because that’s
where we always put the flowers,
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because we can’t think
to put them anywhere.
Stop it!
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So what?
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So what? Okay.
-Because they went there once.
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And I liked them there!
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And now I feel comfortable with them being there.
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Whatever! Let me have my story.
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My story is I just randomly put them there
because I see them all the time.
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So what?
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The answer is, that’s where they go.
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Right?
-Because that’s their place.
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Whatever.
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Anyway, look what happened.
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Gilbert went right over to them
and I went back to my office.
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And of course, I don’t know that
he’s up there knocking on my flowers.
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So that’s what he does.
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I hate him, and, Mark comes into my office
a little while later and goes,
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why is there throw up on the counter?
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I’m like, what?
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He’s like, there’s a huge pool
of throw up all over the couch.
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He threw up on the counter so my asshole
cats go, ran over to my brand new rug.
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Okay, and throw up on okay.
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I got hardwoods and tile and shit,
but they throw up right on the new carpet.
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Yeah, see,
that’s why my house is a shithole.
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Because I know that it’s
going to be ruined. So why make it better?
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Oh, that’s your philosophy.
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Okay.
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Yeah, that’s. Yeah. That’s good.
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I mean, that’s that’s that’s a choice.
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That’s not mediocrity at all. That’s fine.
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That’s totally fine.
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Oh, I am the poster child for mediocrity.
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Oh, well, I think that
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we should give a little valentines
to somebody else.
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Okay.
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Stop it.
It’s time for you to come in here.
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Scott. In there? Yeah.
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I didn’t set up for this. Doesn’t matter.
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You just need to come in. Matter?
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This.
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Does it matter?
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We need you.
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All right, Jeeves, d do we need you? So.
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Anyway,
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we feel this is the More Love podcast.
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Please come in.
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I love the Jeeves. Oh, yes.
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Yes, yes, yes, please come in.
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Do you want to share Aaron’s makeup?
Come on over.
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Come on over. Scott.
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We love Valentine’s Day,
and we wanted to give you.
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Haha.
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We want to give you this bear
cub bouquet of flowers.
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Oh, this is for you.
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Can you hand it to him?
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Yep. And,
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Kelly, if Scott gives this
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to you later, it’s from him.
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That’s totally fine.
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we got you some picked up? Yes.
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So. So you’re. Help me.
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I said so
are we going to. We’re going to buy.
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We’re going to buy Scott some flowers
for Valentine’s Day.
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She’s like who? Scott? I got
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I got he’s our podcast partner.
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He’s she’s like, okay, I go
we got to find manly flowers.
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She’s like, yeah,
let’s look for some black and blue ones.
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I’m like, yeah, no.
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So she picked like not recessive
Valentine’s Day.
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She picked those.
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And then I go, we got to find something
manly to put it in.
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And she picked that.
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Wow. So she is manly is it.
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That’s right there.
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I mean, there is a whole lot of choices
there, but that’s your little bear cub.
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But wait, we’re not done. We’re not done.
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We’re not done.
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I, I,
I suck because I didn’t get you guys know.
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Oh, it’s this
this this is not part of the plan.
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Scott, listen.
Where are you? Oh, goodness.
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Oh, good.
You don’t think we’re you? Oh, goodness.
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Oh. I’m sorry. Here’s
the other Valentine’s Day.
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No one gives a shit. No. It’s fine.
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I didn’t even give Erin anything
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except where I called her
and serenaded her this morning.
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It’s fine.
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But this.
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We also know it’s your birthday.
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You love some Duncan.
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And we did not at all
want this day to go by without you
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participating and having some. Duncan.
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But this is a lot of fun.
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This right here on the.
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On the air, on the YouTubes.
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Here on the air? Yes.
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So should we sing Happy Birthday? Yes.
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Happy birthday to you.
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Happy birthday to you, Sadie.
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My, that is,
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happy birthday to you.
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Oh, wow.
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That’s awesome.
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yeah.
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Lucky we got you some Dunkin Donuts,
some snacks.
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Bacon in there
in the disguise of wearable.
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Look at this.
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Do you like it? Oh, do you love that?
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Do you like it?
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We love it.
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So Scott is currently holding a
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t shirt from Imperfect by Kelly,
soon to be a website.
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Once we get around to it.
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And on the up front,
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we have a heart
and in one half of the heart is the rock.
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Do you like this?
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That like that’s like that’s rare.
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Do you look like a snake?
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It’s like.
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This is not like the top.
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Here we have, the rock
fox loops over here.
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Rock Fox logo, the little, microphone.
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And then on the other side
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we have the Empathic Edge logo,
which is Rebecca and our new Rebecca.
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NAS, Rebecca notes
new business that we’re running.
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And then on the back in by Kelly
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wrote more love love rock Fox.
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That’s.
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There.
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So happy birthday. There’s your snares.
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Just back in again from Duncan’s
happy 40th birthday.
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That’s a happy birthday for the 11th.
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Happy Valentine’s day.
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Happy Valentine’s day.
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Happy birthday.
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Happy snack and bacon right now
back to the
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back to the show was made by Paul.
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While Scott goes back to the station.
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Goes back to his portal.
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Yeah, it was made by Imperfect by Kelly,
soon to be a website.
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Kelly up the street. with her.
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Was it circuit or a cricket?
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A cricket, yeah. Get those mixed up.
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So fun, so fun.
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Oh my goodness, I’m very sick.
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Yeah, I know it’s not good, but at least
you’re getting that out of your system.
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Now, I know
before we leave for the cruise.
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Which destination?
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We have no clue where we’re going. Right?
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We live next week.
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Yeah, I’m really excited about it.
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I’ve already started my, purchases.
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okay. Yeah, yeah.
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I, we need to go back to the Amazon board.
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I know you made.
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I know we should probably do that
this afternoon.
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What it is that we need to do,
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that we need to order
because we’re in our window now.
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So now is the time.
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Oh, the return window.
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Yeah. Okay,
so that’s good. Now is the time. Yeah.
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And I’m really excited,
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but I’m doing all the things to get better
because I’m a down and out man.
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No it’s not.
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You know what really helps, son?
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I know, I know so, so much better.
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But if you give it to me today
and then I get it
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for the crux of the trip,
I’ll never be really pissed off.
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I’ll never hear the end of it.
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I know, you know, it’s funny, as I was,
oh, yeah, that’s a feel.
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That’s good.
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Yeah. To that, like made my night
I was sorry.
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Nose cavity is I want to like snuff out.
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But this is how cheap I am.
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I was thinking of what suitcase
I was going to take because, you know,
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I have an array, and
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we’re taking southwest down there.
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Would you get two free bags to check?
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Oh, which is great,
except for taking Delta on the.
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We’re back and we have to pay for that.
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So in my mind I’m like, oh, I know
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there was a lot of wow,
that’s really advanced coordination.
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I know that you came out of there.
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I’m, you know, b
I think things all the way through
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and then make decisions based on. Right.
All the things.
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Yeah.
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So I’m in the process
of trying to figure out
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if I’m going to check a bag or not.
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I know now I’ll tell you this
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every time I’ve been on a cruise,
I have gone very well
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prepared for all of nature’s elements
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and I’ve pretty much worn the same
two outfits the entire set.
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That’s you.
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If you look back on our podcast you wear
the exact same outfit every single time.
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I don’t think I’ve
worn the same thing twice.
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so this is I got to bring all the things
I know.
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Did you have a heart on this morning?
Heart?
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Yeah, I do, I do.
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It’s true.
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It’s Valentine’s Day.
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The whole bunch of hearts on the right.
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I was going to wear my heart
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sweats.
